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Why we face resistance when approaching dreams and goals: Insights from psychologist

Why we face resistance when approaching dreams and goals: Insights from psychologist Illustrative photo (Photo: Freepik)
Author: Daria Shekina

It happens that we dream of something for a long time and strive toward our goal, but as soon as it approaches, we feel inner resistance.

About why this happens exactly, RBC-Ukraine reports, according to a post by psychologist Tetiana Ovcharenko on Instagram.

Why do we encounter resistance when approaching our dreams

The more we begin to move towards our dreams, take new steps and actions, the more we may encounter self-sabotage, resistance, and tests of our intention to have what we want.

"Changes are inevitable. The greater the leap of the new we make and allow it into our lives, the more the layer of old beliefs, fears, prejudices that previously kept you in the old place of inactivity will rise," explains Tetiana.

And here the solution is only one - to continue moving forward, supporting yourself in every possible way:

  • new knowledge
  • habits
  • skills
  • environment.

Why we face resistance when approaching dreams and goals: Insights from psychologistWhy do we encounter resistance when approaching dreams (photo: Freepik)

According to Tetiana, emotional support from a specialist and understanding people is crucial. Changing values ​​and allowing yourself to be, have, and act.

Any change is a certain strategy that entails full responsibility for what you are creating.

"Simultaneously co-creating with the world, everything will work out for you, just choose the right option for you that resonates with your heart and the hearts of others," the psychologist concludes.

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