What women never forgive men, even if they love them deeply
What woman will never forgive man for (photo: Getty Images)
There are things women can endure. But others cause even the strongest relationships to crack, like ice in March. It's not about whims or offenses, it's about boundaries. Men often fail to notice when it's too late, when trust is dead and respect is gone.
What are the things women will never forgive men for? Life coach and sexologist Vitalii Kursik shares his insights exclusively - check them out!
There are things women might tolerate — even stay despite them — but never truly forgive. And they never forget.
“They might stay silent, but something changes in their attitude. Deep inside, something breaks. And from that moment, the relationship is never the same,” says life coach and sexologist Vitaliy Kursik in a piece for RBK-Ukraine.
Here’s what women often never forgive their partners for, even if things seem calm on the surface:
Disrespecting her feelings
Telling her to “stop being hysterical” when she’s hurt. Ignoring her when she opens up. Blaming her instead of offering support. It’s not just a misunderstanding - it’s loneliness next to someone who’s supposed to be close.
Cheating – Physical or emotional
Even if she forgives, the scars remain. Cheating isn’t just about sex - it’s about devaluing her as your choice. Emotional betrayal (“just texting,” “just friends”) can cut as deeply as a physical one. It shows you’re seeking connection elsewhere.
Humiliation and cruelty
Especially in public or at home. Sarcasm, arrogance, demeaning jokes – even in jest – chip away at her sense of self. Constant humiliation makes a woman lose herself… and eventually, her love.
Dismissing her values
Calling her dreams “nonsense,” her interests “childish,” her life “not serious.” A woman won’t forgive being made to feel small. She either shuts down or walks away - and rarely comes back.
Lack of responsibility
Avoiding hard conversations, disappearing during tough times, and never taking initiative. It’s not about strength — it’s about trust. And where there’s no trust, love fades.
Manipulation and lies
Even “small” lies told “for her own good.” Once a woman catches a man lying, she begins to doubt everything. And if there’s more doubt than trust, the relationship starts to crumble.
Indifference
Always busy, always tired — or just not interested. Not talking to her, not listening, not spending time together. She notices. And when the pattern repeats, she realizes she doesn’t matter to him.
Being left to handle everything alone
If she always has to decide, solve, and carry the weight, she gets tired of being “strong” next to someone weak. She’ll leave for where she can feel supported, not burdened. She needs a partner, not a project.
“Women often get chances. They try to fix things, talk, and understand. But there comes a point when they just don’t want to anymore. They stop believing. Stop trying. So saving a relationship isn’t about grand gestures. It’s about respect, sensitivity, and honesty - every single day,” Kursik concludes.
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