Jennifer Lopez's ex accuses her of cheating and lying: 'You chose fame and fortune'
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa clash after singer's interview (photo: Getty Images)
After an emotional interview on the Howard Stern Show, in which Jennifer Lopez claimed that none of her exes were "capable" of loving her, her first husband, 51-year-old Ojani Noa, exploded on social media, accusing the star of lying and hypocrisy.
What Lopez said earlier
J.Lo admitted that none of her four previous husbands ever truly loved her.
"What I learned, it's not that I'm not lovable. It's that they're not capable. They don't have it in them," the celebrity said in an interview on the Howard Stern Show.
The artist explained that her partners tried to express their feelings with expensive gifts, but that wasn't enough to feel genuine love.
"They gave me what they had. They gave me all of it. Every time. All the rings. All the things I could ever want. They tried to give me the houses, the rings, the marriage, all of it," Lopez confessed, emphasizing that luxury cannot replace sincere emotions.
Ojani Noa's reaction
On Instagram, he addressed his ex-wife with a harsh tirade.
"Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. The problem it's not us. Not me. The problem it's you. You the one who couldn't keep it in your pants," he wrote in response to Lopez's statement.
The former waiter and actor reminded that Lopez had many romances and marriages, so saying she was never loved is unfair.
Ojani Noa spoke about his marriage to Lopez (photo: Getty Images)
"You have been 'loved' a few times. You have been married 4 times. And have had countless relationships in between. You have had good relationships. Me for example," he stated.
He also stressed that he was truly in love with Jennifer and did everything to support her career.
"I was in love with you. I even moved out of state, leaving my job, my family, and my friends behind to support you, to love you, to protect and care for you. I'm an amazing, loving person, a great human being. Honest, faithful, and loyal. I never lied, misbehaved, or cheated on you. I was too good for you. I'm too good of a man for you," Noa emphasized.
However, according to him, it was Lopez who put fame above feelings.
"But you, you chose fame and fortune over our relationship. You decided to lie, to cheat on me. And even then, I stayed. I tried to keep the marriage alive. You even begged me to stay because you didn't want bad press, you cared more about your career than about saving our marriage. And still, I stayed," he wrote.
Ojani Noa about his marriage to Lopez (photo: Getty Images)
Ojani Noa also accused his ex-wife of deliberately prioritizing a "fast line of career" over family.
"You continued lying and cheating. I couldn't stay anymore or deal with the constant lies. That's why I left you. That's why I divorced you. Tell the truth for once. Let people know that you are the problem. You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself," the actor concluded.
Lopez and Noa met in 1996 at Gloria Estefan's restaurant in Miami.
They married in February 1997 but filed for divorce just 11 months later.
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa (photo: Getty Images)
Last year, in a Daily Mail comment, Noa said that he held no anger toward the singer.
"I have no ill feelings at all. I will always be her friend. I sympathize with both of them because divorce is difficult," he said at the time.
Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa (photo: Getty Images)
After Noa, Lopez married Chris Judd (2001–2002), Marc Anthony (2004–2011), and Ben Affleck (2022–2025).
With Anthony, she has twins—Max and Emme.
Earlier, we wrote that J.Lo had completely changed her look.
