How to tell if your husband no longer loves you: 7 warning signs
How to tell if your husband no longer loves you (Photo: Getty Images)
Love in marriage doesn’t disappear overnight, but there are moments when it feels like something has changed. If you sense a chill in your relationship, pay attention to these signals. They may indicate a serious crisis.
Ukrainian life coach and sexologist Vitalii Kursik told RBC-Ukraine what 7 signs may indicate that your man's feelings have faded, and why.
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He avoids communication
You used to talk for hours, but now he either stays silent or gives short answers. He shows no interest in your affairs, doesn’t engage in conversation, and avoids emotional contact. -
He doesn’t care how you feel
If he used to ask whether you were tired or upset but now doesn’t seem to care, that’s a worrying sign.
“A loving husband always pays attention to his partner’s condition, both physical and emotional,” explains the coach.
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He doesn’t show affection
Touches, hugs, kisses — all of that has disappeared. If your husband has stopped showing physical affection without any explanation, it may indicate a loss of emotional connection. -
He spends more time without you
Did he used to want to spend evenings and weekends with you, but now looks for any chance to be out of the house? This could be a sign that he no longer feels happy in the relationship.
“But don’t jump to conclusions based on just one sign. There could be other reasons,” the expert warns.
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He criticizes you or gets irritated for no reason
Instead of being supportive, he’s constantly dissatisfied, pointing out flaws and blaming you even for small things. If everything you do irritates him, the issue might not be you, but his feelings. -
He doesn’t make plans with you
Did you used to discuss vacations and future goals, but now he avoids these conversations or just says, “I don’t know”? This could mean he no longer sees you in his future. -
You feel like something is wrong
Intuition rarely fails. If you have a feeling that he’s become distant or that you’re no longer important to him, don’t ignore it.
What should you do?
The first step is to have an honest conversation. The issue might not be lost love but stress, fatigue, or other life circumstances.
“But if your husband isn’t willing to change anything, it’s worth asking yourself honestly: are you ready to keep living like this? Maybe it’s time to move on — separately,” concludes Vitalii Kursik.
