4 'red flags' on date: If you do these things, there definitely won't be next meeting
Four reasons that could cancel a second date after meeting (Photo: freepik.com)
Most adults are eager to start relationships. However, dating doesn't always lead to desired results, as many never make it to a second date. The reason often lies in "red flags" that make a potential partner unattractive.
CNBC explains which behaviors to avoid on first dates to avoid ruining the impression.
According to Tinder's 2024 report, over half of men (53%) say they want a relationship, and the same is true for 68% of women. However, 91% of men and 94% of women admit that establishing long-term relationships is very difficult, as communication often ends after just one or two dates.
During introductions and meetings, people make mistakes that cause the other person to stop finding them attractive.
Drinking on the first date
Three out of four single people prefer not to drink on a first date, and 45% of respondents said they favor sober meetings. Additionally, 55% admitted that staying sober helps them get to know the other person better.
When it comes to first dates, 17% of people said that a simple coffee date would be enough. Another 11% would prefer going to a show or museum, while 14% would choose a simple walk for the first date.
Overusing Instagram
People who are overly focused on social media often come across as self-absorbed. That's why 74% of respondents said they wouldn’t want to date someone who constantly uses social media.
On a first date, it's best to keep your phone face down and avoid distractions from notifications.
Avoid politics and social issues
Being aware of social and political issues is a big plus for people on the dating scene. In fact, 75% of respondents mentioned they would prefer a partner who respects or is interested in social issues.
Additionally, 47% of singles said discovering that their date doesn’t vote is an instant dealbreaker.
However, this doesn’t mean that you and your potential partner need to share the same views. Only 24% of people said they wanted to date someone with identical opinions, while 46% would prefer to date someone with different political views.
Traumas
A large majority (93%) of respondents prefer dating someone who is emotionally vulnerable. They value this more than height or income.
However, there is a right and a wrong way to open up.
The right way is to share stories that reflect your goals and values, which can lead to a deeper and more meaningful connection.
The wrong way is oversharing your deep traumas too early. Be authentic, but don't overwhelm your new acquaintance.
