How to make man fall even more in love with you: 5 secret tips for women
What to do to make a man fall in love even more (photo: freepik.com)
Love is not something static. It either grows and develops, or it fades. But there are a few tricks for women that can help ensure a man falls in love with her again and again. The key is not to be intrusive, not to manipulate, but to create an atmosphere where feelings only strengthen, the Ukrainian coach and sexologist Vitalii Kursik explains exclusively for RBC-Ukraine.
Effect of slight inaccessibility
Relationships are a balance between closeness and mystery. If you're always there, always available, there's no room for interest.
"Focus on your own life, grow, meet with friends. Let him understand that you are a valuable, self-sufficient woman, and to be with you, he needs to put in effort," advises the expert.
Use power of touch
Yes, men love with their eyes, but they respond even more to tactile sensations. A gentle touch during a conversation, a pat on the back, a kiss "just because" - all these actions trigger the chemistry of attraction. Even after years in a relationship, this works just as well as at the beginning.
Compliment him - but right way
Men love compliments, even if they don't show it. But instead of the cliché "you're the best," emphasize specific things: his strength, intelligence, sense of humor, or care.
"For example: 'I feel so calm next to you' or 'I've never seen anyone solve problems so well.' He’ll feel like a hero, and you’ll become even more precious to him," suggests the coach.
Be source of positive emotions
People are drawn to those who bring joy. If you are associated with constant dissatisfaction, complaints, or criticism, he will gradually begin to distance himself.
This doesn't mean you always have to be cheerful and hide problems. Just make sure there is more positivity in your interactions than negativity.
Do what he doesn't expect
Routine is the enemy of love. Surprise him: a sudden compliment, a small gift for no reason, a spontaneous trip out of town, a romantic evening.
"Unexpected pleasures evoke strong emotions in men, and strong emotions are what make them fall in love again and again," explains the expert.
Falling in love with a man even more doesn't mean "tying" him down or changing yourself for him.
"The main secret is to be yourself, develop, and give him space for his own feelings and actions. And then he won't want to let you go," concludes Vitalii Kursik.
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