Building trust and understanding: How to become your child's best friend
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The relationship between parents and children is unique. On the one hand, parents try to instill discipline and proper upbringing, while on the other, they aim to be the best friends. However, to achieve the latter, certain advice needs to be followed, according to insights from psychologist Iryna Kulik.
Listen
Parents should listen to their child, taking into account their feelings, thoughts, and interests. It's crucial to show interest in what they share.
Try to carve out time from your busy schedule to spend with your children. Often, kids complain about not getting enough time from their parents, which can make them feel neglected and lead them to ignore you.
Be patient
Children may have their own perspectives and reactions that differ from adults. Being patient and understanding will help foster friendly relationships.
Be open
Creating an open and trusting environment where a child feels comfortable and safe is advised by psychologists.
Allow your child to make their own choices in life. You can offer guidance, explanations, and specific examples of why a certain choice might be better, but dictating and imposing your views and beliefs is something to avoid.
Encourage
Supporting a child's interests and encouraging the development of new skills and knowledge will build trust between them and adults.
Even if a child's desires seem too fantastical, it's better not to ridicule them. Instead, have a conversation and explain why their idea might be challenging or impossible to implement.
Set an example
Parents should remember that their actions and words serve as an example for their children. Show kindness, respect, and honesty.
Iryna Kulik notes that being a good friend to a child means providing them with support, understanding, and love, which forms the foundation for a healthy and happy childhood.
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